"There is nothing sweeter than seeing the emptiness of all things." This is what Scott Kiloby's work is all about. Scott Kiloby is the author of "Love's Quiet Revolution: The End of the Spiritual Search," "Reflections of the One Life: Daily Pointers to Enlightenment," Living Realization: Your Present Experience As It Is," and "Living Relationship: Finding Harmony with Others." He is also the creator of a new addiction / recovery method called Natural Rest for Addiction along with an effective tool for dissolving addiction and compulsion called the Compulsion Inquiry.
Scott has developed the Living Inquiries to help people see through the sense of a deficient self as it shows up in relationship. The sense that we are "not good enough" or "unlovable" or some other deficiency creates disharmony and struggle in our interactions with others. We often point outward or seek outside ourselves to find happiness, love, and acceptance, only to find the same struggles happening over and over. Scott says that we have to look inward first and see that there is no deficient self. The deficient self is just an old script we have been carrying around. It is not who or what we are. That seeing naturally harmonizes our relationships.